Throwback and Bless!

Hai,

Setelah satu tahun tidak menulis apapun di blog saya, maka sudah pasti cerita yang akan ditulis begitu banyak sampai mungkin tidak ada yang mau membaca :p haha
Di saat semua orang sudah bisa mengabadikan setiap moment dengan snapchat, steller, atau bahkan vlog, saya sendiri hanya aktif di path (yang sekarang sudah saya hapus) dan instragram, oke sesekali hanya melihat update terbaru apa di Facebook tanpa mengepost apapun.

Mei 2015

Setelah menolak offering menjadi Flight Attendant, saya mencoba menuangkan minat mengajar saya pada sebuah wadah, yang saya namakan Sekolah Kolong Cikini. Kalian bisa membuka blog, fanpage, dan instagramnya.


Juni 2015

Kelas pertama Sekoci di mulai dengan sangat sederhana dengan 4 orang guru (Saya, Laras, Wina, dan Seddy) di bawah kolong jembatan stasiun dengan jumlah murid 4 anak.
Tepat pada bulan ini juga saya dan Edo sepakat untuk menabung bersama untuk menikah di tahun depan.

Agustus 2015

Datang ke acara keluarga besar Papa di Kudus kumpul dan silahturahmi, ngasih surprise ke Papa waktu ulang tahun dia ke-64, dan berhasil bikin dia nangis :D hahahaa (terharu). Di sini juga sekalian ngasih tau ke saudara-saudara kalau saya dan edo akan menikah di bulan Mei 2016 (Edo ikut juga ke acara ini)

Januari 2016

Setelah bersiap-siap mengumpulkan seserahan dan uang untuk acara pernikahan, kami mendapat kabar kalau Ayah dan Mama Edo kecelekaan motor di Palembang. Waktu itu sedih banget, kaki Ayah patah dan kaki Mama bengkak besar.

7 Mei 2016

Lamaran di rumah saya yang dilaksanakan sangat sederhana tapi penuh khidmat. H-2 lamaran masih nyari baju berdua Edo untuk lamaran kita.

15 Mei 2016

Acara Pernikahan kami yang dilakukan di Kementerian Sosial Salemba. Akad Nikah yang sederhana di masjid dan resepsi pernikahan yang kental adat jawa di Aula Aneka Bhakti.

18 Mei 2016

Berangkat Honeymoon ke Lombok, lebih tepatnya di Gili Trawangan. :)

Juni 2016

Menjalankan Ramadhan pertama dengan suami :)

July 2016

Mudik ke Palembang.


Nah panjang kan? hehe
Selanjutnya akan saya ceritakan tentang pernikahan saya ya :)

Don't change your goal, you just need to change your strategy.

Hai everyone, as I promise before on the previous post, I'd like to tell you about the result of the cabin crew recruitment which I join, the results are

The picture above is the result of Air Atlanta Icelandic, yeay I got it, Alhamdulillah

Then, this picture above is the result of Citilink Indonesia, wohoo double combo! Alhamdulillah..

But, wait! Why I feel so confused? Why suddenly there is an awkward feelings appear? Why I am unsure to be a cabin crew right now? Geez, you must be kidding me! ( I know you guys will said like that) While thousands of young girl compete want to be a flight attendant, then I was struggling for some recruitment, now I feel "Is this the right decision for me?" I mean, I am almost 25 years old but I didn't achieve anything like a house for my family, like a vehicle or the other luxurious thing in the world. I am taking a deep breathe, think very deep, make a (+) and (-) being a flight attendant, I know my big goal is only want to pay my parents to pilgrimage to Mecca with my huge salary by being a flight attendant. Then what? Oh Allah, I forget something, I am just chasing for Dunya, my eyes close to the money and money. Do I ever think about the other thing? Like get married and continue my education to Master program and how about my life will be if I am being a mother and wife? I mean, I am impressed to a cabin crew and really want to be them. But, the reason is only for money honestly. My closest friends ask me to do Istikharah and pray to Allah, let Allah show you the best way.

Then after, a month thinking very hard about the consequences and the profit also, I choose to step back, I send the email to the both airlines (Air Atlanta and Citilink), my father agreed with my decision, he said I need to re-think about this, how about the contract meanwhile he want me to get married soon. I know, it really hurt, I struggle and fight for all the step and stage even the process takes time, then when I get it, I rejected. Unbelievable! My boyfriend, Edo (Oriental Boy) support me to take another job, to continue my education in any ways, either scholarships or own cost.

Well, I send the cancellation to join with the Air Atlanta or Citilink. Besides that, I know my job is doesn't have any career path on the company which I worked at the time. Alhamdulillah, Allah show me another way, I got another opportunity in other Multinational Company which runs in retail sector from European. I am being an Executive Assistant, but it is more clearly in career path because there is a promotion and rotation, so I can learn a lot of knowledge in any field. It is such a coincidence that I am responsible for Marketing, Digital Strategy, Procurement, Corporate Communication & Sustainability Departments below my bos. There are a lot of knowledge which I could get, interesting and yes, challenging for sure. But, at least I try, right? Then how about my daily routine?

Yap, I am preparing a big goals, the goals are mostly still the same like I chase from year to year! If your missions are failed, do not ever change your goals, but the strategy. Man Jadda Wa Jadda , I know those words are like a spell to me. I believe I can make it.

See ya in another post!

With Love,

Ajeng